The Conundrum of Feminism { Take 2}

….i wonder what you see when you look at that girl in your class, that female co-worker in the office, the sister across the dining, the random woman across the road or even the hot babe in the club….i see another human being….shikena!!!!....most importantly my perspective of her as a fellow co-habitant empowers me to treat her accordingly….exactly like I would treat the guy across the room…..social behavior and de-individualization (which bears importance to our actions anyway) aside, if feminism is to really come to the fore then the female should be seen as nothing more as the same….how cliché is this….we’ve all heard it before…buh when u look at it….the new cliché is the double standard that exists within this double standard…one which is making waves in the psyche of society…..the SELECTIVE FEMINIST…..she screams treat me like an equal person when it is to her benefit and then flaunts her gender difference when it will work in her favour....i dare say…..the inequality within the “equality”….. i have come to understand the pull of sexual possibility , how it is as potent if not more potent than the favours actual sex carry; the “power of the p.u.s.s.y”, looking at how many females exploit it is not the issue, the issue is why accept a social definition for yourself INDIVIDUALLY and then turn around and tell me to treat you equally on what grounds….socially you have defined yourself, economically (a borrowed response form JP Morgan’s C.E.O would explain further) you have expressed your worth, psychologically you have conditioned our reasoning….what else are you expecting??....oh no dnt stop on my account….you then want fairness and equality I suppose….oh by all means here you go :D ….as a self proclaimed maculinist ( no social, mental or ideological relation to the chauvinist) I have come to understand and seek the truth behind the equality paradox….DO WOMEN REALLY WANT TO BE TREATED AS EQUALS??....really?...really??....really???....ok o if you say so…. Let us examine the woman, in the workplace equality is expected, in relationships equality is expected….in sports equality is expected….in the classrooms equality is expected…how about in the bank accounts??...in the restaurants…in the cinema....is there equality??....a graduate trainee in whatever field irrespective of your gender earns the same amount in the same company buh yet it seems the females choose not to be able to afford to buy certain things like your cell phones, a nice dinner with friends etc  buh yet you will always find money to fix a new hairdo, have weekly spa treatments, tattoo eye brows and basically anything cosmetic in nature is “affordable” …..i have been lucky to date girls who appreciated equality and see it in its entirety or maybe my quest for sapiosexuality eliminated the rest….buh I have come to understand that with equality comes some reasonability and responsibility…one which entails merit and credit for achievements….and not looks, sexual possibilities and loose morals as a yardstick for success….studies on social etiquette  expected of gentlemen shows “living within your means”, “paying your own bills” and “always be prepared to help”….that expected of ladies funny enough includes all three as well….if a female is expected to foot her own bill….why should she be under the assumption that the gentleman should “pay for her”…an understanding that has been bastardized and taken for granted…she never has cash buh always looks well taken care of…not even by herself….and then you demand equality…when you are basically paid for….so while you sit there preaching for equality do u really understand all it entails or would you just rather sit back and wear the tag of “weaker sex” in silence….your call hun