.....me??....insecure???....lmao....i'm a guy!!!!

*sigh*….thoughts in my head about her…about us….about me….about him??....no way!!! who’s him…is there even  a him??....can there be a him?....how many “hims” are there??...does she love him??....no way there’s no him in the first place……there’s none at all…none at all... *gulp*….i watch amusingly at the demise of don draper, the debonair, svelte alpha male character in mad men, we had first class seats to the impending implosion that took place from….within…..from within his mind…where it all starts for me and you….for her…for all of us….you look at her…she’s smart, beautiful, caring, wonderful, the missing piece in your life, the “one”, she completes you….but…but?...but??..why is there a but???....you ask yourself, you wonder….you think of her as your best friend, someone you are close to, you pray together…she’s GOD fearing….. she laughs at your (boring) jokes and always thinks you’re good company (even when you’re dull)…. she’s always looking out for your interest while protecting hers….cz your success is her success and happiness… she wants her baby to make it….you’re smug….you’re happy….you look at her…you smile and stare at her breasts, her lips, her buttocks, yeah…she fucks you good, she lets you in anytime you want, she sucks you likes she’s gonna win a prize and when you’re good she lets you give her all your prize in her mouth….she’s a freak….she’s your freak….a freak with ambition….yuuup…goes to school…earns good grades….wants a life and has drive to be successful…she wants this with you…she makes you see this in a million ways….she’s there to cover your blind sides….she wants to be there for you….support you…feel your pain….grow with you and make you happy….damn!!!....she’s ready to do all this for you….yet these thoughts….thoughts of her…of us….nah….it’s just rubbish….guys don’t have insecurities….it’s a female thing….we shld allay their fears not generate ours….*sigh*…..yeah I hear ya brov….i hear ya….i’m not worried I’m just……saying…..what if……….

Interested in marrying a Rich Man...here's an insightful look at the possibilities through the lens of JP Morgan's CEO

So a certain Ms Pretty asked how to indeed marry a rich CEO, wanting to know where they hang out and how to get with them….oddly enough she got her answer and it was not pretty as her name :D

Question: What should I do to marry a rich guy? I’m going to be honest of what I’m going to say here. I’m 25 this year. I’m very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with $500k annual salary or above.
You might say that I’m greedy, but an annual salary of $1M is considered only as middle class in New York. My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of $500k annual salary? Are you all married?
I wanted to ask: what should I do to marry rich persons like you? Among those I’ve dated, the richest is $250k annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit.
If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York City Garden(?), $250k annual income is not enough. I’m here humbly to ask a few questions:

1)Where do most rich bachelors hang out?
(Please list down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)

2) Which age group should I target?

3) Why most wives of the riches are only average-looking? I’ve met a few girls who don’t have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys.

4) How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can only be your girlfriend?

(my target now is to get married)

Ms. Pretty

Answer: (A philosophical reply from CEO of J.P. Morgan):

Dear Ms. Pretty,

I have read your post with great interest. Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours. Please allow me to analyse your situation as a professional investor.
My annual income is more than $500k, which meets your requirement, so I hope everyone believes that I’m not wasting time here. From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to marry you. The answer is very simple, so let me explain. Put the details aside, what you’re trying to do is an exchange of “beauty” and “money” : Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square.
However, there’s a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason.
The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can’t be prettier year after year. Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset.

It’s not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worse 10 years later. By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a “trading position”. If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term – same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or “leased”.

Anyone with over $500k annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with $500k annual income.This has better chance than finding a rich fool. Hope this reply helps. signed, J.P. Morgan CEO

The Conundrum of Feminism { Take 2}

….i wonder what you see when you look at that girl in your class, that female co-worker in the office, the sister across the dining, the random woman across the road or even the hot babe in the club….i see another human being….shikena!!!!....most importantly my perspective of her as a fellow co-habitant empowers me to treat her accordingly….exactly like I would treat the guy across the room…..social behavior and de-individualization (which bears importance to our actions anyway) aside, if feminism is to really come to the fore then the female should be seen as nothing more as the same….how cliché is this….we’ve all heard it before…buh when u look at it….the new cliché is the double standard that exists within this double standard…one which is making waves in the psyche of society…..the SELECTIVE FEMINIST…..she screams treat me like an equal person when it is to her benefit and then flaunts her gender difference when it will work in her favour....i dare say…..the inequality within the “equality”….. i have come to understand the pull of sexual possibility , how it is as potent if not more potent than the favours actual sex carry; the “power of the p.u.s.s.y”, looking at how many females exploit it is not the issue, the issue is why accept a social definition for yourself INDIVIDUALLY and then turn around and tell me to treat you equally on what grounds….socially you have defined yourself, economically (a borrowed response form JP Morgan’s C.E.O would explain further) you have expressed your worth, psychologically you have conditioned our reasoning….what else are you expecting??....oh no dnt stop on my account….you then want fairness and equality I suppose….oh by all means here you go :D ….as a self proclaimed maculinist ( no social, mental or ideological relation to the chauvinist) I have come to understand and seek the truth behind the equality paradox….DO WOMEN REALLY WANT TO BE TREATED AS EQUALS??....really?...really??....really???....ok o if you say so…. Let us examine the woman, in the workplace equality is expected, in relationships equality is expected….in sports equality is expected….in the classrooms equality is expected…how about in the bank accounts??...in the restaurants…in the cinema....is there equality??....a graduate trainee in whatever field irrespective of your gender earns the same amount in the same company buh yet it seems the females choose not to be able to afford to buy certain things like your cell phones, a nice dinner with friends etc  buh yet you will always find money to fix a new hairdo, have weekly spa treatments, tattoo eye brows and basically anything cosmetic in nature is “affordable” …..i have been lucky to date girls who appreciated equality and see it in its entirety or maybe my quest for sapiosexuality eliminated the rest….buh I have come to understand that with equality comes some reasonability and responsibility…one which entails merit and credit for achievements….and not looks, sexual possibilities and loose morals as a yardstick for success….studies on social etiquette  expected of gentlemen shows “living within your means”, “paying your own bills” and “always be prepared to help”….that expected of ladies funny enough includes all three as well….if a female is expected to foot her own bill….why should she be under the assumption that the gentleman should “pay for her”…an understanding that has been bastardized and taken for granted…she never has cash buh always looks well taken care of…not even by herself….and then you demand equality…when you are basically paid for….so while you sit there preaching for equality do u really understand all it entails or would you just rather sit back and wear the tag of “weaker sex” in silence….your call hun

The Conundrum of Feminism { Take 1}

“Those who love the truth and know the past
Is never past, that stories steer one's choices,
Will want to look for heroines in the vast
Store of women's lives and hear their voices”

Excerpts from a poet unknown “to the heroines still not well known”….my way of breaking the proverbial ice and lacing a thin veiled empathy towards my sisters, lovers, aunties and mothers…permit my miews ( pun intended…muse and views)  if u may….i have an issue to address today….i tend to wonder what feminism is all about, talking to my mothers from maya angelou to rosa parks, to my lovers from one nighters to perennial paramours and to my aunties…from the socially defined ones to the genetically determined ones….they all resonate two words….EQUALITY and FAIRNESS….this always made me wonder… why is she always at a social disadvantage….the conundrum of feminism led me to think deeply and borrow the minds of others to understand what it’s all about….hopefully in the next 2 takes I can express such miews for public scorn n understanding while understanding who she is….the female….